Thursday, February 18, 2010

OUR FAMILY’S PRIYANKA IS NO MORE…

BABY DIDI IS NO MORE…CALL IT SOON…I GOT THIS MESSAGE AT 4.18 PM AND WAS ON 4PM BULLETIN.STILL SEVEN TO EIGHT MINUTES TO GO IN THE BULLETIN…..
SHE WAS JUST LIKE PRIYANKA GANDHI. WHEN I FIRST MET HER IN JAGANNATHPUR IN MUZAFFARPUR…SHE WAS MY MATERNAL SISTER..LIVING IN VARANASI…SHE AND HIS BROTHER WAS JUST LIKE RAHUL GANDHI…BOTH READ IN ALLAHABAD UNIVERSITY…WE HAVE A BIG FAMILY IN MOTHER SIDE…MY MOTHER HAD SIX SISTERS AND FOUR BROTHERS..I USED HAD BECAUSE ONE MY MAA SISTER HAS DIED RECENTLY…
NOW ABOUT PRIYANKA….IT WAS 14 YRS LATER MY ELDER MAMA CAME TO HOUSE WITH FAMILY…I WAS 10 OR 12 THAT TIME…AND NO SURPRISE I HAVE NOT SEEN HIM…IT WAS A GREAT MOMENT FOR ME AND WHAT TO SAY ABOUT GRAND FATHER AND GRAND MOTHER…ALL SIX SISTERS HAVE COME TO MEET HIM AND ALL BROTHERS WAS PRESENT…I DO NOT FIND WORDS TO MENTION HOW WAS THE MOMENT..FROM THEN MY TALK WITH MAMA CONTINUES…HE TELLS SINCE YOU ARE LIVING OUTSIDE WHAT SHOULD YOU DO, HOW SHOULD YOU LIVE AND MANY MORE…WHATEVER REQUIRED CALL ME AND SO ON….HE WAS WORKING IN NTPC, MIRZAPUR AND NOW RETIRED….AFTER THEN WE HAVE SOME MEETING TO HIM…ALL TIME HE WAS SAME. A VERY IDEAL PERSONLITY. ONLY LEAVE IT OUT WHY HE HAS NOT TURNED FOR 14 YRS AND NO CONTACT WITH PARRENTS…THHRE MAY SOME MISUNDERSTANDING, I THINK..
NOW…IT WAS A WEEK AGO I WAS IN VARANSI AND A RECEPTION WAS THERE ON 11 FEB. EVERY BODY WAS GOING ON THERE..ALL OF OUR FAMILY MEMBER…MY MOTHER AND BROTHER TOO COMING..I WAS IN FIRST THOUGHT DO NOT WANT TO GO…BUT IN THE END ON 7th I DECIDED TO GO…CALL OFFICE THAT I WANT 3 DAYS LEAVE…GOT IT AND WENT ON 10th AND REACHED THERE ON 11th. IT WAS A HUGE MOMENT…EVERY BODY WAS THERE..VERY HARD IN THESE WE GET TIME TO MEET EVERY FAMILY MEMBER AT A TIME…AND IT WAS ONE OF THE CASE….MAMA IS ILL THESE DAYS AND HE WAS WEEPING TO SEE SO MANY PEOPLE OF COME TO ATTEND HIS SON WEDDING…EVERYONE WAS SAYING OH WHAT AN OPPORTUNITY WE ARE ALL HERE…..IT WAS A GREAT-GREAT MOMENT WATCHIN MAMA AND MAMI AGED ABOVE 60 ARE DANCING……SUCH A GREAT THING YOU CAN NOT MENTION THE MOMENT….
BUT SOMETHING BIGGER SADNESS WAS THERE WAITING FOR ALL OF US…
IT WAS MESSAGE AND I WAS TOTALLY SHOCKED….THE MOMENT WE HAVE SPENT WAS ALL COMING IN MIND….
MY QUESTION IS HOW IT CAN BE? YOU ARE GIVING A FAMILY SO MUCH A HAPINESS TODAY JUST AFTER 3 OR 4 DAYS YOU ARE PUTTING THAT FAMILY IN SUCH A SADNESS. IT WAS AN ROAD ACCIDENT WHEN DIDI WITH BROTHER WERE GOING TO LUCKNOW. AFTER ACCIDENT HER DEATH WAS ON SPOT AND BROTHER WHO HAS JUST GOT MARRIED IS IN HOSPITAL SERIOUSLY INJURED…..

HOW FARE IS IT? RIGHT HAPINESS AND SORROW COME IN OUR LIFE…BUT IN SUCH A QUICK TIME BOTH THINGS COME…CAN THIS TYPE OF HEARING HAPPEN IN ANY COURT? I HAVE A STRONG POINT TO MAKE. HOW CAN IT BE? RIGHT DO NOT GIVE ME SO MUCH HAPINESS SO THAT I BECOME MAD…AND IF YOU HAVE GIVEN ITS YOUR FAULT NOT MINE….AND HOW CAN YOU MAKE YOUR POINT EQUAL…1-1…ONE GREAT MOMENT AND ONE LIFE TIME WEEPING…AT AN INTERVAL OF 2TO 3 DAYS…..

ONE THING MORE….IN THAT RECEPTION PARTY I WAS SURPRISED TO SEE BOTH RAHUL AND PRIYANKA DANCING…I WAS NOT SURPRISED SO MUCH TO SEE RAHUL DOING THAT. VERY LATE SHE CAME TO DANCE…ONLY FOR A MINUTE MAY BE….BUT THE STEP SHE DID I HAVE NOT SEEN ANY ONE DOING LIKE THAT…
EARLIER I WAS THINKIG TO WRITE THE BLOG ABOUT WHAT A BEAUTIFUL TIME I HAVE SPENT THERE BUT IT WAS NOT THAT GOD MERCY…I COULD HAVE WRITTEN THAT IF I WAS IN EVENING SHIFT…BUT SOON MY SHIFT CHANGED AND IS NOW IN MORNING……
HOW CRUEL COULD BE FATE? THIS IS JUST AN EXAMPLE OF THAT….RIGHT…YOU ARE NO MORE……BUT WE ALL CAN NOT FORGET YOU….ALL FAMILY MEMBER WHO HAVE GONE THERE CAN NOT…YOU ALWAYS REMAIN IN OUR MEMORY…..

1 comment:

Abhishek said...

Sachin,you are journalist and as it is known that journalists are those who veiw & feel the truth of life,as it is a part of your proffession,& the life has two parts HAPPINESS & SORROW we cant extract any of one from ones life,
We also cant say when any of one is going to be in ones life,We can only pray to god for the peace of soul.Our life is like munbai,for some incidents it just stops and after that it again runs more faster than the previous,With alot of prays for Baby di,wishing peace & happiness for you-----------